This episode drops on my 67th birthday, which feels like the perfect time to share something I wish I’d understood much earlier:
Waiting isn’t the safe choice. It simply sends the bill to your future self.
Many of us believe the right time will eventually arrive—that we’ll feel more prepared, more supported, or more confident. But while we’re waiting, we’re missing something important:
We’re not practicing.
We’re not building skills, gaining experience, or collecting evidence that we can do the thing we’re hoping to do.
In this episode, we explore why waiting often feels like the easier option, why it rarely is, and how even imperfect action can move us forward.
In This Episode
- Why waiting feels less costly than starting
- The behavioral science behind status quo bias
- Nathaniel Branden’s “no one is coming” idea—and why it’s actually empowering
- The “excusitarian” phase of change and why imperfect practice still counts
- Why plant-based eating is a practice, not a destination
- A compassionate look at the real obstacles that can make change difficult
- The difference between taking ownership and blaming yourself
This Week’s Question
What would you do a little differently if you believed that waiting is costing you something?
This Week’s Invitation
You don’t have to solve the hard part first.
If there’s one food, one situation, or one habit you’ve been waiting to figure out before you begin, set it aside for now.
Ask yourself:
What’s one thing I can do today?
One meal. One grocery item. One choice.
That’s the practice. That’s where it begins.
If this episode resonates with you, share it with someone who might need to hear it.
And remember:
You don’t have to do it perfectly. You just have to Vedge Your Best.